How can you be mute, and listen to the voice of your soul? Childbirth, change of life circumstances, moving, storm, accident, success, loss; any event which makes you stop, be still and ask where am I going, whats my real mission in life. Am I on the right path? How do I want to use my life in this earthly life time? For everybody that kind of moment appears several times and some of us take it seriously, and starts searching for answers.
The light can find itself more space if we clean -up our minds from negative thoughts; including hate, resentment, rage, anger or even simple acts like turning our back from the reality. When there are no more negative thoughts which dominate the space; the light fills up the space happily. Our souls are pure and that part is the surviving part. There is still a lot of work to do. Our souls learn many lessons and carry them along to eternity.
Only when one becomes a whole, then its possible to distinguish well from evil clearly. Then it will look like day and night without any doubt. To become a whole has steps like love tolerance, forgiveness, acceptance, experience; to be able to stand strong against a desire which is so tempted at the same time can be very costly. To become a whole may take a lifetime. For some people; many lifetimes wouldnt be enough to understand that.
What does love mean? In a dictionary it is defined as; A feeling of strong personal attachment induced by sympathetic understanding, Actually love is not the same thing as attachment. Love does not imply the creation of a self and the possessiveness that frequently accompanies it. As a matter of fact, we can really love only when we drop the self. Attachment implies a holding on, wanting things to be a certain way, setting conditions. But real love is unconditional. Its unattached to any outcome. Real love is not obsessed. The person can let go any attachments if necessary and keep loving in the same way without expectations. Hard as it sounds; that kind of unconditional love exists in the world. You may not have heard of it because these people wouldnt talk about it or cant explain it and prefer keeping as a secret. Thats real love and other types of loves are illusion conditioned. Theyre not real. If you really love, you wouldnt hesitate to let go that person in certain conditions.
A friend of mine recently asked; Whats love? And the answer according to him was equality. Only the people who reach the awareness can be able to understand that equality. It doesnt mean to drop everything you do or believe in. It means an awareness which will bond all people on earth for peace. At that moment there wont be any negative ripple effects, all dimensions will be visible to each other when needed and there will be harmony in each individuals life.
The continuum will be felt, so there wont be the fear of dying or fear of the unknown. This can only be reality when everyone on earth agrees on certain principles an stops the resistance to each other and to life. In the end of a bad persons life, there is equal pain waiting for him. He will feel the effects of his acts like theyre happening to him. And after that pain hell need to forgive himself first. Only then he can reach the light. Otherwise hell linger in the same painful state with total confusion and helplessness. Not to be in that state a long time depends on how you live your life. Thats one of the purposes of life on earth.
One of the examples I met as true love is my grandmothers love; her love towards me was so pure and unconditional, deep inside I had this knowing of no matter what happens, that love would survive. Even if I werent successful enough or if I didnt end up like she wished for me to be I was sure that, her love would survive, not less, not different. That feeling gave me that special confidence that: whatever happens in my life, whatever I experience, wrong or right choices I make I would still be loved and everything would be okay.
Once you have that kind of knowing, its really difficult to find words to describe. It just feels right. Even if you take a path which takes you confused and miserable state of minds at times you find yourself back in the peaceful familiar state of mind again.