Imagine a pianist playing the piano perfectly in his own terms but not including the emotions, his body and his all existence to what he is doing, you may not feel the difference; but a professional pianist will tell the big difference. That can be noticed in the spark of the eyes, in one gesture he makes, how he connects and attracts every single persons attention to a wonderful music piece.

In the same picture, you still have choices in things like how you treat others, if you can be able to forgive yourself and others even after terrible mistakes. If you can connect to someone on the other end of the world with compassion and actually take action to reach, if you can help people by giving whatever you have to give; those are some of the choices in your life which will make a difference. It doesnt seem to affect your wealth, success, but something will be missing if you dont. You call it void or space inside you. Instead of choosing to connect; you find yourself alone in a dark place not understanding the fact that you also need others any moment of your life. By resisting and denying this reality, you will keep yourself in a painful state. Then youll blame others or the events in your life. In fact nobody brought you to that state of mind but you.

If an actor becomes a different person while acting, even enjoys being that person; she has conquered the real purpose. Life is similar to that principle. You life is given to you as a gift. A big package full of surprises, miracles, and tears. That can only happen by not remembering the past and the future, and you get to live the moment as you wish or choose. When you open the package you say; Well, I dont want to live that kind of misery; I have painful experiences and losses. You make your life harder if you dont surrender. If you accept your life as it is, and if you accept that it has been planned that way for your own growth and all will be connected to each other, youll feel the amazing difference. Youll start seeing the signs in almost everything you see, everything people tell you, everything you experience. Thats the miracle of life.

I met people in poverty. They opened their home to a complete stranger, trying their best to make the stranger feel comfortable. They created the most delicious meal out of very little, but sincerely. It tasted good while chatting all together. I also met people wealthy; who are afraid to serve anything to a stranger; they didnt want to give more than a glass of water and couldnt wait to return their busy lives. They missed the chance of living in that moment with a person who has a different perspective of life and the world. They missed the opportunity to feel better about themselves.

I met people building wonderful houses and then being afraid to travel because they thought something would happen to the house; someone would break in. That fear held them from having an enjoyable vacation. It was planned for them to live in a house like that, but it was definitely up to them to enjoy it or to have the fear of loosing it. God gave a chance to humanity to create their own lives by using all the tools given to them. Just like you can decorate your house in many different ways according to the taste of the person who lives in it; you can decorate your life in any way you want. The reason we are here is not how we decorate it. The reason is to understand the real meaning of the existence. The reason is to connect every human being and all things alive and see the miracle of life.

The very same person who lived and finished a life span can say; I lived everything, it was a delightful experience. Im glad everything happened which happened to me. Or he can say; Oh, I was looking forward to die. I was so tired of my difficult life. Its not as simple as being optimistic. Its about missing the real point. I met people talking about the same movie from many different points of views. Life also happens between you and your life. Your point of view is individual, just yours and that makes the biggest difference.