Since I could be able to connect them on that level, I would feel sad and confused when I leave them. Like an empty feeling which can not be described in words. Imagine feeling that after leaving after connecting 1 or 2 children. Celebrities, singers, artists can be able to connect hundreds and thousands at once. It is an overwhelming feeling they dont know what to do with, how to handle after they have to disconnect like leaving the stage after a show or maybe having a break.
The emptiness is huge and overwhelming. They dont know why they feel like this. Its because of this amazing connection which is more rewarding than money and fame. To be able to reach peoples unspoken fears, insecurity, bad memories, anger, love, happiness; all those feelings are released. They can reach all the peoples soul at once and touch them in many different ways. The person is never the same anymore. Leaving the stage or acting is like disconnecting. So being on stage and leaving, is very overwhelming in many levels. A psychiatrist is like this on one on one basis, a singer on stage is doing a similar thing one on thousands A leader has the similar way of connecting. In a soul level; the soul intends to connect nothing else but other souls.
The soul doesnt care about money and fame and all other things coming with the package. On a human level, the same person is confused, after the show or winning an Oscar, suddenly alone and disconnected. He doesnt realize he is disconnected. This moment is the moment to find out how to deal with the overwhelming emotions. Thats when addictions take over; when he doesnt know how to connect to his own soul at that point.
Exploring and combining science and spirituality will bring answers to some questions. An atom cell is made of a nucleus, neutron and protons. The nucleus can be as close to a human soul divinely present in every human being. Some people know how to focus on the nucleus which is always the same contend and perfect in every way. They live with the light. So the negative electrons dont affect their way of living and personality. They connect to others in order to turn those negative electrons to positive protons. Negative + negative = Positive. Its that simple .Otherwise that person needs to find ways to express himself in order to reach the balance resulting with positive. Some addictions somehow reach to a peak point when the person is having fewer problems. Those people tend to neuter their negative electrons by the challenge of solving those problems.
This brings temporary relief. Once the stress is over they find themselves feeling worse because the problems they have been dealing with are mostly on the surface, their real problems are much deeper. There is more pressure from those negative feelings, even more than before they had solved some problems recently. Because the real problems bounce back with more strength which has been gained from recent problem.
Why do people have eating disorders and how can they be healed? The real problem is not eating or weight. The real problem can be solved if the family and friends become supportive and understanding. Since thats not their problem; people tend to forget about it at times. Those moments, they dont know that they are actually spoiling the persons recovery. By serving them food theyre trying to avoid, by judging and arguing with them while the person with the problem is begging not to judge bit listen to them.
A lifestyle change is not an easy transition especially the person is used to certain things for long years. The person really needs to focus on the unsolved problems, bring them to surface and deal with the feelings theyve been avoiding for such a long time, they are afraid to bring to the surface.
