The main reason that Im writing is Id like to share many opinions with you in order to solve many questions which especially arise when we are curious why we are here.

Why are we here? How can we make our existence more meaningful, and more worthy? Its an interesting adventure while we are searching the answers. And I would like you to join me for this wonderful adventure. During this trip there will be times which we agree each other or even relate to each other, and there will be times we think differently. One thing is for sure the disagreements will be interesting which will bring different opinions and different approaches to a subject who will remind you that you are unique; there will be no other human being exactly like you.

Another question is since we know that everyone will die sooner or later whats the point of being born in the first place? I believe some intelligent people have asked similar questions. And in search of answers to those questions they found themselves in a marvelous spiritual search.  Once we found ourselves in this journey there is no returning back because we see that everything is connected to each other. Every answer brings us another question .This path clearly leads us to spiritual enlightenment, to awareness. And only after reaching that enlightenment life makes more sense, become more meaningful.

Everyone may figure out at some point of their lives we all have a reason, a calling to be here individually. In a sense thats true, but surprisingly every single event is connected to another. Some people think that it is random or coincidence. Actually there are no coincidences. .Sometimes its necessary to disconnect. Everybody has their own time and style to do that. Some people resist disconnecting. They think that they will loose control. This can actually lead to diseases, cancer or nervous breakdown. The people, who do their best to pretend that they are happy, find a way to disconnect emotionally. This is not really a natural way so they find themselves addicted to a substance. They never want to hurt anybody. The sad truth sinks in when they realize that they start self-distraction it feels like there is no returning back. The recovery is bringing the person to a state of mind which is similar to N.D.E

Here are some of the similarities. A person who is recovering from an addiction questions life and tries to find out what the mission he has in life is. A person who experienced N.D.E. also starts to see everything clearly and believes that there is more to life. He believes that he has been given a second chance in life so he focuses on making clear chances, finding his true mission in life. I dont mean that the people who dont have an addiction or hasnt experienced an N.D.E. dont have the similar focus in life.

Therefore I realized that most people have the opportunity to have the moment of clarity with the help of a traumatic event, a loss, or some sort of illness which can be deadly like cancer. I witnessed people asking; Why me why me? after a terrible fire accident. Most of their bodies have been burned and they were questioning why they were chosen to have such difficult experience. The same way the mother cries after giving birth to a baby with an anomaly like half developed skull leaving most of the brain out unprotected. She asked: Why did God choose me to experience such terrible pain? I didnt hurt anybody in my life. They were asking those questions because the whole thing doesnt make sense to them at the moment. And those are the important moments they can actually get to start seeing life from a different perspective.

How can we find inner peace and be happy most of the time? Happiness is not a butterfly touching us in very short moments.

How can we be connected to our spirits and whenever we feel that were disconnected, what are the ways to reconnect?